How to recognize a true
spiritual path...
1.
A true path
makes you ultimately more independent and sensitive. True spirituality puts the
responsibility of your growth and regeneration into your hands. You will be
responsible to find your own truth, or in other words: you will find out the
truth for yourself. It won't consist in the repetition of set words or phrases,
nor in mere devotion to some guru. Devotion to the truth as you find it can of
course be expected.
2.
On a true
path there may be a 'teacher', but they will never teach on any other basis
than on your being ready for the teaching. Money will not be asked (other than
perhaps costs covering expenses). A poor student will be accepted if he/she is
ready for learning.
3.
In true
spirituality right living is a number one consideration. Whichever list of
virtues or vices is used is hardly important. It is important though that real
learning only begins after a student has internalized them to some extent and
sees for him- or herself that they are important. A student who doesn't see the
importance of right living will have to postpone all else to learn the basics
first.
4.
On a true
spiritual path there isn't any reward. The result may be enlightenment, but
even that is not gained for oneself, but as 'the power to bless and save
humanity'. Any path that promises reward in any form in this life, is partial
and perhaps misleading.
5.
A true
spiritual leader acts on the principles he or she teaches. He or she is chaste
or at least faithful to wife, husband or partner. There will certainly be no
sexual relations between student and teacher. This is abuse of authority and
betrays the trust between the two.
The danger of sects
Then there
are of course those paths that are dangerous for social reasons. Many lists
have been made on how to recognize a path that will not lead anywhere other
than dependence and isolation from your former friends and relatives.
1.
The first one
has really already been said: in a sect you will be encouraged to let go of
friends and family. On a true path one may naturally let go of certain friends
as one has grown beyond them. A true path may make one change a lot. But the
impulse to let go friends should come from the inside, not the outside. As for
family - depending on circumstances of course - most people will find that
their relationship with their family changes as well. For some all bitterness
disappears and therefore the relationship becomes better. In other cases the
family can't accept the changes a person goes through and will let the
individual go. But in no case will a true student let go of personal love, just
for the sake of the path. Love starts in the here and now, with the people
we've been put into this world with.
2.
In a sect one
will be showered with personal attention at first. There will be a wooing
period. More than a simple friendly welcoming, there will be people who act as
though they were your friend and will 'reel you in'.
Unfortunately
real and fake spirituality have many things in common. Both will appeal to your
sense of wanting to belong to a greater whole. Both will encourage you to
devote time and energy to 'the cause'. Every organization needs people to help
sustain it. On a true spiritual path such selfless service will help to
understand the principles of right living. In a sect such service (if performed
selflessly), may in the end help to clear the mind enough to be able to leave.
The appeal of a sect is partly the fact that it perverts the true. We sense the
truth behind it and don't yet realize the false ways in which it has been used.
Sects will, for instance, often appeal to a realization that the personality
has to be let go. (Sexual) abuse will perhaps be justified in this way. In this
case what is forgotten is that when the personality is let go, it will be
replaced by a true awareness of what is right and wrong. The body and the personality
are linked, so anything that strengthens the animal passions will only help
pervert the personality. Sex will not help in going beyond the personality (except of course, temporarily).
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